Unscript Your Life is an eight week transformational program that empowers you to break up with the Script and become the creator of your own life.
PROGRAM OVERVIEW
Most of us are living inside of a “Script” - a story about how life should look, what we can or can’t do, and what we’re allowed to want:
“If I just do well in school, get a good job at a good company, and work really hard, then I’ll be happy.”
“Even if I’m bored and tired and burned out, I should just suck it up because work can’t be fun all the time.”
“I feel totally trapped, but leaving to do something more exciting is unrealistic. What will people think?”
These Scripts and idea about what we’re supposed to be doing were given to us as kids. As we grew up, we observed our parents, our teachers, and figures in popular media, and we said: “that’s what life is supposed to look like.”
The issue is that these Scripts aren’t designed with our unique personality and dreams in mind - they’re largely based in fear, scarcity, and keeping us ‘safe’.
As a result, life inside a Script is stifling and predictable: Feeling lackluster and bored at work, spending your downtime distracting yourself from work, and always desiring a more fulfilling and exciting life, but never actually realizing that desire.
This program will give you the insights, tools, and strategies that will help you break up with your Scripts, and craft a new vision for a life you love - one that’s truly fulfilling, and is reflective of your innate, authentic greatness, where:
You’re living in your purpose, doing work that is fulfilling, challenging, and meaningful.
You’re excited to wake up and get started every day.
You have a rich life outside of work, full of gratifying hobbies and deep relationships.
You’re present, centered, and flowing through life (not burned out and overwhelmed).
You get paid to be yourself and have fun.
Unscript Your Life is about breaking up with how life is ‘supposed to go’ and crafting your own.
This program is for you if:
You feel stuck inside of a “Script” and you want to create a new, more exciting life for yourself.
You are wanting to live THE BEST life possible, with a 10/10 in every area.
You love personal development and learning about yourself - you’ve been reading self-help books, listening to podcasts, and bingeing YouTube videos.
You’re excited to step outside your comfort zone and be in scary, confronting action to pursue your dreams.
This program is not for you if:
You want to keep thinking about making a change and will maybe take action on that thing you want ‘next year’.
You want someone to give you the answer of what you should be doing with your life.
You don’t want to leave your comfort zone or address the underlying patterns in your thinking and behavior that are getting in your way.
You’re not willing to financially invest in yourself and your growth.
Are you ready to be the creator of your own life?
Let’s UPLIFT to UNSCRIPT together.
WHY I STARTED THIS PROGRAM
I created this program because following the Script held me back for most of my life.
Growing up, there wasn’t much room for me in my family. My job was the “Mediator.” In order to avoid conflict, I got really good at making myself small, putting everyone else’s needs before my own, and doing everything I could to keep the peace.
My eleven year old self.
As I got older, what I learned was that if I worked really hard and was nice to everyone, then people paid attention to me. By becoming an over-achiever and someone who did impressive things, I got the attention and the love I was looking for.
So I made my whole life about achieving and accomplishing things. And it worked, in a sense.
I went to a great school, built a super impressive resume in college, and after graduation got a job with an elite rotational program at LinkedIn.
On the outside, everything looked great. I looked happy, and on paper I “had it all”…
But on the inside... I was fucking miserable.
I hated the work I was doing.
It was unfulfilling, meaningless, and not pushing me to grow in the ways that I was craving. I was being told by my colleagues and managers that it would get better, and that I just needed to be grateful for what I had. But I couldn’t help but feel like I was wasting my time and potential moving up the wrong ladder. I felt like I was trapped.
I was constantly anxious, burned out, and overwhelmed.
My entire life was centered around working and my job. I said yes to every project, every opportunity, every experience, because I felt like that’s what I was supposed to be doing, and that in order to get ahead, I needed to work harder than everyone else. At times, I was working 10-12 hours days just to keep up appearances and keep my head above water.
I had a shallow, unfulfilling life outside of work.
Most of my life outside of work was trying to distract myself from thinking about work. I drank a lot of alcohol, smoked a lot of weed, and watched a lot of TV. I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was doing everything I could to bury my feelings about how much I was dreading going back to work the next day or the next week. It was Sunday Scaries, all the time.
This all came to a head in 2017.
I missed a sales quota at work, which at the time felt like it was the end of the world. The month leading up to that I was completely consumed with anxiety, finding it hard to sleep at night or think about anything else except for my numbers.
When the month was over, and I had officially missed my quota, I started to reflect on why I cared so much. What was it about this totally arbitrary number that was causing me to question my worth and value as a human being? It was then that I realized:
I was just doing what I thought I was supposed to be doing.
I was following the Script - working hard, getting the right jobs at the right companies in the cool cities. I was building my life based on what I thought other people would see as impressive, instead of what I actually wanted to be doing.
What I actually wanted was more freedom, more joy, more control over my life.
I wanted to be working on things that mattered to me, with passionate, high-caliber people.
I wanted to be waking up every morning excited about the work that i was doing, and to be connected with the impact and difference I was making in the world.
I decided then and there that I was done with the Script. I was going to craft a totally Unscripted life.
So I got intensely focused on breaking up with my Scipts and creating MY own life. I saw therapists to heal my childhood traumas, I worked with Ayahuasca and mushrooms to expand my mind, I hired Coaches to powerfully build my future. I invested tens of thousands of dollars in myself did the scary thing over, and over, and over.
And this dedication to living Unscripted has changed everything.
I have never loved my life more than I do right now. In this new life, I:
Make my own schedule every single day.
Have total creative control over what I’m working on. If I don’t want to do something, I don’t do it.
Wake up (almost) every day feeling excited about the work ahead of me.
Feel constantly challenged and called forward into the next level of myself.
Am 100% authentic. I don’t feel the need to pretend or get anyone to like me.
Put my mental/emotional health first, and have almost entirely eliminated my anxiety.
Get to focus on fun and joy instead of being busy and being perfect.
Have surrounded myself with the most loving, kind, and brilliant people.
I get to take what I’ve learned and support other ROCKSTARS in helping them create their own lives.
I had to totally Unscript myself to get here.
And now I want to help you do the same!
PROGRAM RESULTS
The Unscript Your Life program will empower you to:
Identify Your Scripts 🔍
Through a dynamic mixture of curriculum, tools, and real-life practice, you will distinguish and identify the overt (and hidden) Scripts keeping you stuck and unfulfilled.
Rediscover Who You Truly Are 🌟
You will rediscover your innate greatness and who you are at your highest and best. You will leave with this program with clarity on your purpose and how to craft a life around it.
Craft Your New Vision 👁
Using my Mindmap framework, you will leave with a clear vision of your new life beyond your Scripts, complete with measurable goals, a concrete timeline, and a bulletproof accountability system.
Live Unscripted! 🚀
You’ll understand how to create lasting change through accountability structures, and most importantly you’ll stop dreaming about an Unscripted life and you’ll be living it!
CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
PROGRAM FEATURES - HOW IT WORKS
Weekly, 90-minute group coaching calls where we walk through a dynamic curriculum with lessons, exercises, takeaways, and most importantly, real-world practices.
Two, 30 minute 1:1 coaching calls with Hayden to get individualized support and accelerate your growth.
Powerful tools, exercises, distinctions to deepen your learning and transformation.
Accountability structures designed to have you be in massive action and actually implement the things you’re learning.
A team of fellow joyful go-getters that will celebrate your wins and help hold you accountable.
Access to a private WhatsApp group for team support from other members.
Direct support from Hayden via Voxer.
The next UYL cohort will launch officially in June. The weekly coaching calls will be held Wednesdays from 5-6:30 Central Standard Time.